Remo and Chris: A Home Run Friendship

When Remo retired in 2017, he was looking for a way to give back to the community and do something meaningful with his time. A chance encounter with an article about ABLE2’s Matching Program piqued his interest. Little did he know, saying “yes” to becoming an Ally would lead to a seven-year (and counting) friendship that has not only enriched his own life but also transformed the life of his Match, Chris. 

Chris, living with diabetes and mobility challenges, joined the Matching Program at the suggestion of his sister. At the time, he was living independently but found himself increasingly isolated. “I wanted someone to do things with,” Chris recalls. Through the program, he was paired with Remo, and their connection quickly evolved into a friendship that neither could have predicted.

The two meet weekly, often over coffee or lunch, and enjoy everything from attending Ottawa Senators practices to reminiscing about Chris’s childhood. Remo shares, “It’s the simple things—visiting places that are meaningful to Chris, helping him run errands, or just catching up—that make our time together special.” Once, the pair even ventured to the Rideau Canal to try skating, a humorous and memorable experience they both laugh about to this day. “Not everything turns out perfect, but it’s always worth the effort,” says Remo.

For Chris, the friendship is life changing. Before meeting Remo, he spent much of his time alone, watching TV. Now, he has a companion who helps him get out, experience new things, and share life’s ups and downs. “Having Remo in my life means I’m not stuck at home anymore. It’s made a huge difference,” he says.

But the impact is mutual. “This friendship has taught me patience, understanding, and the value of seeing the world through someone else’s perspective,” Remo reflects. While volunteering might seem like a big commitment, Remo insists it’s not as daunting as people think. “Meeting once a week for a few hours is such a small part of my time, but the rewards—for both of us—are immense.”

For Chris, Remo is more than a volunteer—he’s a trusted friend. A few years ago, when Chris was hospitalized while recovering from a health issue, Remo stood by his side, offering support and companionship during his recovery. Their Match has grown beyond just shared outings; it has become a deeper, more meaningful bond that carries them through life’s challenges together. 

“If someone out there is considering volunteering, I’d tell them, ‘You might find someone like Remo, and that’s a home run,” Chris says with a smile.

ABLE2’s Matching Program builds connections between people with disabilities and volunteers. We’ve seen time and time again how a simple friendship can profoundly impact lives. Volunteers like Remo aren’t just allies—they’re changemakers, helping people with disabilities feel seen, supported, and empowered.

If you’re looking to make a meaningful difference, consider becoming a volunteer. As Remo would say, “It doesn’t take much time, but it means everything.”

Learn more about the Matching Program and how you can help change lives with just a few hours a month.